Of course I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t provide some editorial comment so here are my thoughts. And honestly, I don’t offer this as a means to engender debate. Thought, perhaps, but not necessarily debate. Sometimes I write just to put my thoughts and feelings on paper. If you’re not interested, please just scroll on. If you ARE interested, though, these are thoughts I have developed over my lifetime, during MY process of becoming, and I guess at 74 I still play around with these thoughts. I do, though, think they relate to basketball, specifically Michigan’s women’s team and Coach Kim and Naz Hillmon as discussed in the NY Times article, but also to life which goes on during, and for a long time, after basketball.
One of the reasons I think a college education is so important is because it expands one’s thinking. It expands one’s experiences, one’s horizons. It challenges the norms with which one has grown up. It takes one out of their comfort zone and forces them to examine their beliefs. Just as exercising our body helps it to become bigger and stronger and more flexible, exercising our brain and our heart, anywhere really, but especially in a college environment helps those vital organs to expand and to become bigger and stronger and more flexible, as well. And I think this expansion of mind and heart is soulful.
I believe a college education is much more than learning accounting, or engineering, or nursing, or management, or pediatric surgery, which is REALLY important, or teaching, or whatever skill we are there to learn. It is the process of becoming that which we are in the process of becoming, and I believe it promotes lifelong growth and development in becoming the person who we are continually becoming. I believe in college for many reasons. We learn technical skills, but just as important, we grow as a person, and we have a chance, a good chance, to become one who can be a positive force for change in the world.
I think this piece by the NY Times and what our Michigan Women’s Basketball team is doing as it relates to race relations, and frankly human relations, is beautiful. This is basketball, at a high level, and college, college basketball! I commend both Naz Hillmon and Coach Barnes-Arico for their role in helping these girls, and everyone whose life these girls touch, to grow, to expand, to become and to think in more expansive and in more inclusive ways.
Speaking of teaching, Coach Barnes-Arico is the ultimate teacher. Yes, she understands X’s and O’s and she teaches them well, but she teaches so much more than that. I’ve said before that coaching is teaching, and it is the purest form of teaching. Coach Barnes-Arico is that kind of coach, that kind of teacher. As one who dedicated his adult life to teaching and coaching I admire and commend her.
Naz Hillmon will go on to do great things in life, of that I am confident. She will touch the lives of many others in very positive and meaningful ways. She will cause people to expand their thinking…and their hearts and their souls. Naz will look back on those who have influenced her as she influences others. She will look to role models like her mom and her grandma, civil rights leaders like John Lewis, perhaps our first black woman Vice President, and a mentor and coach named Coach Kim. As those folks have touched her life, she will go on to touch the lives of others, her teammates, little girls who idolize her, black girls and white girls, the moms and dads of those little girls, some of us on this forum, this little 74 year old old silver haired gentleman, for one. And she will influence the lives of so many others she will encounter in her life as she becomes that which she is in the process of becoming as a basketball player and, more importantly, as a human. I see her being a leader in whatever she chooses to do as she continues to move forward on the path of her life. She will play basketball for a while, but she will do SO much more after basketball.
I believe in a college education, not just to learn and develop specific skills designed to help one earn money so that one can pay the bills and have nice “things.” Yes, that is important, too. Of Course it is. But I believe in a college education because of the kind of person it encourages and nurtures one to become. And in that way, maybe, just maybe, we can help others to grow. We can promote a better world, one that is more understanding, and caring, and inclusive, and one where folks are more respectful of others, more willing to see the humanity in others. Maybe we can create a world where people truly work together for the common good. What a concept! Naz Hillmon and Kim Barnes-Arico are doing that very thing, and they will continue to do so. So, I think this was a beautiful article about two beautiful, remarkable, outstanding, and wonderful women, two women who are leaders, two women who are part of the University of Michigan Women’s Basketball program. We are Blessed.