This is why I have great respect for you, Dot, and I always have. Excellent post!
Paragraph one. I absolutely agree. The college experience is incredibly important I think. I would prefer kids got that experience for four years rather than just one or two, but I’m pretty much just a stuffy old guy who recognizes that those times and the memories one derives from them are truly priceless.
Paragraph two. Again, I think you’re right. These are all important. I would only say, and I’m probably sounding like a broken record, if they are valuable for one or two years, then why not three or four. But again, and it’s just my opinion, the decision to stay and have that great experience and have those memories becomes MUCH more difficult with the insane amount of money being thrown at them. And I suppose that’s good…and bad.
I DO think it is important for young people to have folks in their lives that can help them weigh the enormity of the decision they have to make in that regard. A coach is an extremely valuable asset to that player and his family. I would hope all coaches are honest and sincere in their counsel of players and that the motives of those coaches are pure and are not based on their own self interest. All options should be laid on the table, honestly, fairly, completely, transparently.
Paragraph three. I do think some coaches play on emotion. I think Coach Izzo is one of them. Unlike others, I am not going to criticize him for that. As you know, he is a VERY emotional guy. Emotion is part of who he is, part of his psyche. It is a large part of why he is Tom Izzo. It’s part of why he can get, almost violently, in a kid’s face one moment and have his arm around that same kid moments later. It’s why kids love him. And they do.
Does he use that to keep them in school. I don’t know. If he does, is it a conscious thing. I don’t know that either, but if he does, if it conscious, then I think it’s emotional manipulation. Just my opinion. I know that most of his players love him. I DO know that. I don’t know if he uses that to get them to do what HE wants them to do.
Paragraph four. Yes, a lot of people seem to “prioritize getting the riches.” Again, it is hard for me to truly understand that mindset because that’s not who I am or anything that I ever, well since I was about 22, anything that I’ve ever really cared about.
After what I describe as almost an epiphany, at the age of 21 or 22, I decided to become a public school teacher and coach, something I NEVER would have considered prior to that. Getting rich was certainly NOT part of the plan. So, I really struggle with the notion that’s “it’s about the money.” Again, that’s me, and I really don’t want to argue with anyone about it. My priority is no one else’s, it’s only my own. I do realize that my point of view is not the popular one these days, though.
I WILL say this, I have written and I have spoken on the topic of, “Teaching and Coaching, the GREATEST profession I could have ever chosen.” Life worked well for me, though now that I have a “special” needs granddaughter who needs therapies her parents simply can’t afford and for which insurance will not pay, I sometimes question myself as to whether it wouldn’t be REALLY nice to have a lot more money, and could that have happened if I had chosen another path. But that’s another subject.
I appreciated your comment Dot, and I have GREAT respect for your opinion and your knowledge! Thank you.